Fat Wedding 6: “Bluff and Buff Your Way to a Better Bridal Body”

Here’s part 6 in the Fat Wedding series, an exposé of the stresses and pressures on a bride to “look her best” (read: be skinny/ier) for her “big day.” You & Your Wedding – Mind & Body The introduction to the “mind & body” articles is “Get body and beauty confident with our special section.” [...]

Dangerous Waters – Part 1

Sometimes the hate is so virulent, it very much takes my breath away. I get scared, thinking of not only my safety, but the safety of my fat compatriots, and my future likely fat children. These are examples where people hate fat people so much (for often different reasons, or no reason at all) they [...]

Fat Discrimination Inevitable in the Next Presidency

As a disclaimer: I identify with, most closely, the libertarian party (see my post on FA and libertarianism). Logically, I would not be supporting any of the current candidates for the presidency based on my views; each of them hold some kind of deal-breaking beliefs which makes it impossible for me to rubber-stamp them in. [...]

Fat Wedding, Part 5: Horror Show

 This is a “pulse-taking” of bridal motivations to lose weight, how much they want to lose in what time-span, and what they say they need to do and why. I searched for “lose weight wedding” in Google. These are from hits on the first  search resuls page. 43 Things.com – lose weight for the wedding [...]

Fat Wedding, Part 4: “The Bride Wore Very Little”

Image from NYTimes.com This is going to be a short one in the Fat Wedding series. I read this NYTimes article last week and have been meaning to get around to talking about it. I’m picking out this article in particular NOT because it out-and-out rails against fat brides, or gives you a diet plan, [...]

Fox Outrage – Britney Spears

Now, I’m pretty tired of hearing people pick on and/or obsess about Britney Spears. For god’s sake, I’ve known my share of young women who have similar issues, and they aren’t that few and far in between. To hear the media report on her, you’d think she was the first young woman to be duped [...]

Throwing Off the Diet Cross

Sparked by both red3′s terrific post Changing the Conversation, by an actual conversation I had with my stepmother last night, a life-time thin person. Comparing Oppressions I observe much apologizing to other oppressed groups whenever someone tries to analogize fat oppression in a way those who still don’t quite accept fat oppression can understand (there’s [...]

Ugh! Sorry about the look.

Sorry to everyone about how this looks. WordPress is f*ed right now and seems to have frozen on this awful theme. I can’t change it, urgh. I will get things righted as soon as WordPress starts responding again. EDIT: Okay, so I settled on a theme! I also tweaked the header a little. I kinda [...]

“Her Chapter Was Cut” – Introduction

Author’s note: I am writing “Her Chapter Was Cut” as a serial, to be completed in ‘parts’ when I have an extra hour or two. The parts will be largely unedited, in the sense that they’ll be checked for grammar, spelling, and consistency, and published directly thereafter. Depending on the success of the serial, it [...]

The Good Ones…not so hard to find

Yesterday I had a long conversation with my to-be stepdaughter about FA. Being a rail-thin girl her whole life, some of the things I said she couldn’t relate to (like being taunted about one’s weight, or told to lose weight, and so forth). However, she was surprisingly “in” the conversation: when I cited the statistic [...]

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